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A sexless marriage is generally defined as a marital relationship in which sexual activity between partners occurs infrequently or not at all. While the exact frequency varies by definition, many experts consider a marriage sexless if a couple has sex fewer than 10 times per year. Studies show that sexless marriages are relatively common, affecting anywhere from 7% to over 20% of married couples, depending on age and survey methods.

Sexless marriages are more common among older adults due to natural declines in libido and physical health, but they also occur in younger couples. About 15.6% of married individuals in one large-scale study reported no sex in the previous year, while another survey found that up to 25% of millennials in marriages reported problems with sexual desire. Rates tend to increase with age, and certain factors—like conservative attitudes, poor health, and relationship dissatisfaction—correlate with higher rates of sexlessness.

Causes of Sexless Marriages

There are many reasons why a marriage might become sexless, including:

• Health problems such as chronic pain, menopause, or mental health conditions.

• High stress, work pressures, or exhaustion.

• Communication barriers or unresolved conflicts between partners.

• Changes in attraction or sexual desire, which may ebb and flow throughout the course of a long-term relationship.

• Medications or hormonal changes.

• Emotional disconnection or focus on parenting and daily life over intimacy.

 

Impact on Relationships

The absence of sexual intimacy can affect emotional connection, self-esteem, and overall relationship satisfaction. For some, it becomes a source of frustration or resentment, while others may adjust to or even prefer a nonsexual dynamic. Divorce is not inevitable in a sexless marriage; couples’ reactions range from pursuing therapy to ending the marriage to redefining their relationship with new expectations.

Navigating a Sexless Marriage

Addressing a sexless marriage usually involves:

• Honest conversations about needs, expectations, and emotional hurdles.

• Depending on individual situation, consider having sex outside relationship, with a Male Escort to fulfil your physical needs or seeking professional help through counseling or sex therapy if communication alone doesn’t resolve issues.

• Addressing underlying health or psychological conditions with appropriate treatment or support.

• Exploring alternative forms of intimacy, such as cuddling, nonsexual touch, and emotional bonding.

Conclusion

Sexless marriage is a complex issue shaped by personal, relational, and societal factors. While it can present challenges, couples dealing with sexual inactivity are not abnormal, and solutions exist ranging from medical help to relationship counseling and revised expectations. Ultimately, the healthiest marriages are those where both partners feel heard and their unique needs—sexual or otherwise—are addressed.

• I am a professional. I am an experienced male escort specialised serving only the female clients.
• Female clients who are my regular clients, i value their loyalty and tend to build a long term connection and relationship
• I handle everything from receiving and answering booking queries to accommodation arrangement and meeting with you in person. I do not have any personal assistant. Also booking with me means you don’t need to deal with any agency where multiple people handle your information. So, all your information remains secured and our meeting remains discreet and private.
• I am in this job for long time. I have seen women from all walks of life looking for a male companion for ladies. My experience with diversified female client gave me the insights and good understandings about women, their needs, their expectations and demands from the male escort serving woman.
• I am highly educated and i am from corporate background. I worked for world’s one of the most renowned companies both in abroad and Australia. Hence, i can understand professional women, women from the corporate background, business women very well. I can have intellectual conversation with you about wide range of topics. Many clients hire me to have good conversation.
• One of my greatest strength is to understand people. My corporate experience taught me people skills very well. I can understand people very well and my people skills allows to have a fruitful discussion with you, meet your expectations and put your confidence back.

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1. Read the whole website. You will find all the information here. Specially read the first time booking a male escort and FAQs
2. Read My Blog where i discussed various topics in details that will help address many of your concerns.
3. Carefully choose your male escort. Unfortunately due to online directories, many playboys have become male escorts overnight and women are having bitter experiences. Any professional male escort will have his own website and explains his services and experiences and have reviews from his clients. Building own website requires lots of effort and only male escorts TRULY PASSIONATE about his work will do that. Any male escort advertising in online directory are like to be newbie or not much professional since adding an online profile just takes matter of minutes and anyone can do it easily anytime. 
4. It is scary to be with an unknown male escort due to safety concern. While many male escorts offer incall at their own place to save incall costs; that might not give full comfort to the clients; I addressed this issue by offering my service in a discreet hotel or service apartment where i need to provide my ID during room booking that gives comfort to my clients I will not engage in any harmful act since the authority has got my details. 
5. Do not book a male escort based on look only. Most of then women make this mistake. Now a days looks can be photoshopped and decisive. Do not get distracted by the look or six pack glamorous photos. It doesn’t tell you about the ability of a male escort in bed. A good male escort is physically and mentally prepared. He is respectful, understanding about her needs besides having good physical attributes – such as having strong erection and ability to play long enough till she is fully satisfied. 
6. Before hiring, chat with him and see if  he understands your needs. If he is reluctant and doesn’t want to listen to you, that is a red flag and you would know that personal is not giving enough effort to know you and your needs, let alone trying satisfy them. 
7. If you are concerned about your privacy, do not book through an agency where several people deals with your details and you have no idea about the person your are going to book since agency will not let you talk before you pay them. 
8. It is natural to feel nervous . Send me a text and let me help you to deal with your concerns. Many women i saw before had similar situations, they discussed their concerns with me, booked a session and returned with smile and have become my regular clients. 
9. Sex can be had outside a relationship. Regardless you are single, married, in a committed relationship, virgin, in a sexless marriage or in a sexually satisfied relationship, I don’t judge my clients and listen to her expectations and work hard to fulfil all the desires. 
10. Let me know all your desires if you have such. Don’t feel shy. I am here to fulfil your desires. No desire is weird to me. I love to know your desires and fulfil them as long as they are safe to act.

Thanks for reading the above. I hope you have much better idea now choosing the right male escort for you. At this stage if you believe i am experienced, a good fit for you; i will suggest to listen to the audio testimonials and read the testimonials of my other clients and get in touch with me by sending a message to me. 

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Hiring a Male escort is australia will cost you money. The rate varies from service provider to provider. Prominent male escorts are expensive and costs significant amount to hire for longer hours. Interesting most male escorts in Sydney do not offer incall service and their service rate is usually seems cheaper. However, almost all first time customers cannot host and require a safe and discreet incall service by male escort where they can enjoy the sexual intimicary in a secured and private place without any stress. Hence, do your due diligence before hiring a male escort solely based on his rate. Check his offer and compare the rate if incall is offered. Usually male escorts offer incall usualy charge starting from AUD 400 to 500. For longer hours it costs more. If you want someone desired thrugh FMTY then it costs significant amount usually 3000-5000 ore even more. Jay offer incall service at an affordable rate.

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50% of my clients are married women who are deprived of sexual pleasure. Sex is an integral part of your life, in fact i would say it is a part and parcel of our daily life. Every adult woman needs some intimacy, some kisses to release the physical and mental stress. Unfortunately I have seen women who are deprived of sex for months even for years. It is not uncommon to see married women living with hubby/partner under the same roof in a sexless relationship. Many people don’t pay attention to the absence of sex in their life. They accept the fact and move ahead. However, a sexless life may deprive you certain physical and mental benefits as per research. Regular sex is an important contributor to mental well being. Also, when you get the sexual drive and doesn’t meet that physical needs; it doesn’t let your stress out. Over the period of time; it may have an impact on your mental and physical well being. 

A news article by The Gurdian covers the stories of numbers of relationships around the world where people are having sexless relationships and feeling distressed. One female participant responded – “I am a very sexual person. I need sex like I need food and sleep.” That’s true sex is a basic daily need. We all need kisses from our partners to feel the bonding, we need hugs to get the feelings of being together, we need to talk about sex, what he likes to do, what she loves and keen to try, what is her favorite positions, what kind of sex she wants and what’s her fantasies. When these become missing; life becomes robotic, becomes stressful. You don’t need to feel shy to meet with a male escort who is a specialist fulfilling your sexual demands. What you are thinking I know- You are hesitating to touch someone, kiss someone and have sex with someone outside your relationship. You might be thinking about infidelity. However, if you think deeply, you would understand that maybe your partner no-longer cares for your sexual desires, maybe sex is the topic he tries to avoid. Now you ask yourself, if you don’t’ talk about sex or don’t do sex with you then what’s the special thing you do with your partner that you don’t do with anyone else? There is nothing. Well, I am not advocating for break-ups, i am saying you should ask yourself these questions and find the answer and find a workable solution. If require, have a conversation with your partner, visit a marriage counselor or relationship expert. However, there is nothing absolute right or wrong. If you are fine with your situation and that works for you that’s also fine. Most of my married female clients don’t do sex with their partner. Some of them are mid 30’s, some mid 40’s, some are married to first love since school, some are married to someone they still enjoy be with them except the sexless part of their relationship and they found me as a solution to fulfill their sexual needs and keep visiting me regularly to fulfil all their desires.

If you are having a similar situation and need some help to talk about the problem, feeling relieved, become sexually active, have sexual pleasure at your own terms at a safe, discreet place, in a non-judgemental environment; please feel free to text or email me. Your identity is 100% protected since I offer 100% discreet sessions.

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Many of my clients ask me how they can have good oral sex. Single young women in their early 20’s  to women in their 40’s asked me this question many times. 

What is Oral Sex?

Oral sex refers to sexual activities using your lips, tongue or mouth to sexually arouse a woman by gives her sexual pleasure.

Is Kissing Considered as Oral Sex?

Kissing is one of the oral sex acts.

Examples of Oral Sex

Cunnilingus, Kissing, Sucking Nipples, licking anus, and smooching are typical examples of oral sex.

How To Have Great Oral Sex?

Since you have a good idea about oral sex let’s discuss how you can enhance the pleasant experience of oral sex that is enjoyable for both of you.

1. Rule Number One: Have the consent- Like any sexual act for oral sex you need to have the consent. Engaging in oral sex without seeking receiver’s permission can be considered as invasion or privacy or individual’s consent and may be considered as crime. Many people believe oral sex is not sex that is completely wrong. The examples of oral sex mentioned above are part of sexual activities that stimulate your partner are considered as sexual act. Hence, having consent is very important to enjoy your oral sex without any stress.
2. Start with kissing- Kissing is considered as a good starting step to arouse your partner sexually that can lead to further intense sexual activity. This good feelings of bonding through smooching and enjoying each other’ warmth stimulates both to go ahead for the next sexual act. A good kissing gives the signals of comfort to both the partners and invites them for further foreplay and sexual encounters.
3. What Should Be The Next Steps- Once you start with kissing and enjoying the next step can be decided based on both of your individual preferences. There is no step by step rule for everyone. I usually go for sucking boobs. I am a complete boob man and love to passionately sucking boobs on my female clients who enjoy and love getting their boobs sucked passionately by an expert.
4. My next movement would be focus on the pussy, put my fingers in the pussy hole and start licking it. Women love the feelings of their pussy sucked by a man who keeps using his hands to squeeze their breasts along the way.
5. Remember don’t rush during Oral sex. It’s not a marathon race where you need to act fast. Rather take the time, kiss, suck passionately and enjoy each other’s warmth. 
6. Using both Lips and tongue- The pleasure of oral sex depending on using your tongue and lips. It is suggested to start gently, using flick of the tongue to arouse your sexual partner and when she is very aroused engage lips and tongue for passionate kissing experiences. While doing so, keep an eye on the response of your partner and use your own intuition to play by air. 
7. Do Dirty Talk- Dirty talking is a very effective way to break an invisible barrier between sex partners and engage them for a passionate sex. To get the full benefit to arouse both the partners, it is recommended the conversation to be both sided. Start with how they are enjoying  and based on the received feedback provide your feelings about the sexual experience you are enjoying with them that positively reinforce your partner to engage more. Women love attentive and considerate males. Asking for their opinion, gives the women, her male partner is NOT focused solely on his sexual pleasure but also carer for her. This feeling is extremely arousing and a secret recipe of having great sex. 

It is highly recommended to check each other’s STD status since so many sexually transmitted diseases like HPV virus, Herpes can be spreaded through oral sex. Where there is doubt, using an oral dam is recommended.

In Australia, single mothers make up 81% of single parent families. Single mothers need to perform more responsibilities, handling all the needs of the children raising them. After doing jobs, running errands, cooking foods, cleaning home, taking care of the kids, making some time for herself becomes the least priority. Intimacy is a part of our life and and being in a position with so many responsibilities without intimacy, without sex; life becomes more stressful. Sex is a stress relief activity. Hence, a sexless life becomes quite stressful for a single mother and impacts her work life, personal life, her behavior, mood and overall well being. Hence, even you may not be in a relationship; there are ways to embrace intimacy and get sexual happiness. 

 

The most safe and best option for a single mum in Sydney is to hire a male escort service in Sydney who is specialised serving single mums.  Hiring a male escort is a better and safer option than a random date with a stranger found on dating apps. Professional Male escorts specialised in providing sexual services only keeping away their emotions. Single mothers can be emotionally fragile and at risk when they date with random guy or playboys who are mostly selfish at bed and focus on meeting his sexual need. Whereas male escort focus on meeting their client’s sexual needs only. Client’s satisfaction is his sole priority. Moreover, not get emotionally attached; protects a single mum from getting emotionally hurt.  Furthermore, a random guy from a dating app might be a criminal or psychopath who can harm a single women and her child while visiting their place. Male escorts see clients in a neutral place usually in a hotel or service apartments where their details are saved with the hotel authority; adds a layer os security for the female client and allows her to enjoy the sexual sessions without any stress.

 

Being a leading male escort for females; Jay has seen many single mothers in Sydney to fulfil their sexual needs and bringing sexual happiness in their life. 

Sydney-Male-Escort.com is helping single mothers based in Sydney to find and avail sexual happiness in a safe, discreet and non-judgmental environment.

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Many of my clients ask me how they can have good oral sex. You may be surpised what to discuss about oral sex? But, if you think

 

I often visit Sydney CBD to meet amazing working ladies who need the male escorts service. There are many working women who are my clients and keen to meet with me before starting their day. Some women prefer quick 1 hour encounter during lunch break to refresh their day. There women who also meet with me after daylong work and want to meet with me to re-energize themselves. Working women hires more male escort now a days. Many working women who hire male escort are single mother. There are married women as well who want to add some little adventure in their boring married life by hiring a male escort.

If you need to hire male escorts for best boyfriend experience or a massage or not sure what do you need then send me a text 0421616476 and let me help you to fulfill your desire.

What i expect from my female clients hiring sydney male escort?

Hygiene is the most important factor, as it helps the client and me have safe intimacy. I expect you to be present with clean attire and take a shower at the beginning of the session.

Remember, when woman are hiring sydney male escort, she is the boss. You set the rules and are in total control. Let me know at the beginning of the meeting anything you are not keen to do so that you can have a wonderful meeting as you wanted.

I expect my clients not to take any photo or do video of the session. I respect my client’s privacy and expect the same from them. Otherwise, i may terminate the session.

I hope for female clients hiring me- Sydney male escort, are respectful, not rude and non-racist. I want to have a wonderful session with you where we would have mutual respect and every act would be performed based on mutual consent.