Often i read news articles couples or partners find their sex boring. Sex is like anything else of your life. Sometimes we get bored with our daily life doing the same thing again and again. In sex, same things happens. If you have same actions during intercourse with your partner, definitely after certain point sex become boring as well. Just think why people find sex with another man or woman more interesting. The answer is simple- they never had sex before, so that is something new to them- make them excited.

If you find your sexual life has become boring, my advise is to try following-

  1. Try new positions- What i mean is try some new actions. Don’t stick to only few positions you feel comfortable. There is hundreds of intercourse positions available online. A simple google search will show you hundreds of positions you never considered or tried before. Discuss the positions with your partner and see what s/he thinks. A simple discussion can make both of you excited and can bring lots of joy that were missing in your sexual journey before.
  2. Try Sex Toys- if you didn’t try before, try some toys for new experiences. There are many toys available that can enhance the enjoyment both of your sexual life. Start with toys those are relatively simple and easy to use first and gradually move towards the more complicated and expensive ones later. Trying toys together is a great way to get back the chemistry that was lost. I would recommend read the reviews of sex toys to have an idea about the experience of other people so that you don’t get any surprise if you are newbie trying sex toys.
  3. Try something new- i would strongly recommend try some actions. Are you just having sex in the bed? When was the last time you had shower together? Do you know how different is shower sex? When was the last time you had sex other areas of your house? Did you tried sex in the balcony in the night or sex in the kitchen or on the floor? If not, try considering that.
  4. Food during sex- It is a brilliant idea to spice up your sex life. Many people try strawberry ???? Ice Cream ???? Cream to make the sex hotter. Just imagine put the chocolate or ice cream  or mango or strawberry in his/her mouth and indulge in some foreplay by licking it.
  5. Whipped cream- If you didn’t try this, i would strongly recommend to try at-least once and see how it goes. Putting some whipped cream on her breast or ass or clitoris and licking it one of the best sexual experiences. Women love their nipples with cream getting sucked.
  6. Using ice cube- i believe it may not work for everyone but you can try it if it works for you. Using ice blocks in the erogenous zones make the zones quite aroused.
  7. Foreplay- The importance of foreplay is nothing new to discuss. If you are having sex without foreplay then you are missing a significant sexual enjoyment. Foreplay prepares our body for penetrative sex, helps man to have erection for long time and helps women by relaxing the muscles and arousing the nerves ending experts says. So in short, foreplay prepare you for the real action. It’s like warming up for the real match.
  8. Discuss your expectations and desires- having a open chat with your partner, knowing each other’s expectations prepares both knowing what is coming and avoid many surprises. For example- if you try anal without informing your female partner, she might not be prepared for it. For example Sudden Anal fingering or penetrations might be quite painful and may stop session right there leaving her angry.  Hence, discuss and know each others fantasies and trying them will definitely make both of you more sexually attractive to each other and add new color to your sex life.

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