Many of my clients ask me how they can have good oral sex. Single young women in their early 20’s  to women in their 40’s asked me this question many times. 

What is Oral Sex?

Oral sex refers to sexual activities using your lips, tongue or mouth to sexually arouse a woman by gives her sexual pleasure.

Is Kissing Considered as Oral Sex?

Kissing is one of the oral sex acts.

Examples of Oral Sex

Cunnilingus, Kissing, Sucking Nipples, licking anus, and smooching are typical examples of oral sex.

How To Have Great Oral Sex?

Since you have a good idea about oral sex let’s discuss how you can enhance the pleasant experience of oral sex that is enjoyable for both of you.

  1. Rule Number One: Have the consent- Like any sexual act for oral sex you need to have the consent. Engaging in oral sex without seeking receiver’s permission can be considered as invasion or privacy or individual’s consent and may be considered as crime. Many people believe oral sex is not sex that is completely wrong. The examples of oral sex mentioned above are part of sexual activities that stimulate your partner are considered as sexual act. Hence, having consent is very important to enjoy your oral sex without any stress.
  2. Start with kissing- Kissing is considered as a good starting step to arouse your partner sexually that can lead to further intense sexual activity. This good feelings of bonding through smooching and enjoying each other’ warmth stimulates both to go ahead for the next sexual act. A good kissing gives the signals of comfort to both the partners and invites them for further foreplay and sexual encounters.
  3. What Should Be The Next Steps- Once you start with kissing and enjoying the next step can be decided based on both of your individual preferences. There is no step by step rule for everyone. I usually go for sucking boobs. I am a complete boob man and love to passionately sucking boobs on my female clients who enjoy and love getting their boobs sucked passionately by an expert.
  4. My next movement would be focus on the pussy, put my fingers in the pussy hole and start licking it. Women love the feelings of their pussy sucked by a man who keeps using his hands to squeeze their breasts along the way.
  5. Remember don’t rush during Oral sex. It’s not a marathon race where you need to act fast. Rather take the time, kiss, suck passionately and enjoy each other’s warmth. 
  6. Using both Lips and tongue- The pleasure of oral sex depending on using your tongue and lips. It is suggested to start gently, using flick of the tongue to arouse your sexual partner and when she is very aroused engage lips and tongue for passionate kissing experiences. While doing so, keep an eye on the response of your partner and use your own intuition to play by air. 
  7. Do Dirty Talk- Dirty talking is a very effective way to break an invisible barrier between sex partners and engage them for a passionate sex. To get the full benefit to arouse both the partners, it is recommended the conversation to be both sided. Start with how they are enjoying  and based on the received feedback provide your feelings about the sexual experience you are enjoying with them that positively reinforce your partner to engage more. Women love attentive and considerate males. Asking for their opinion, gives the women, her male partner is NOT focused solely on his sexual pleasure but also carer for her. This feeling is extremely arousing and a secret recipe of having great sex. 

It is highly recommended to check each other’s STD status since so many sexually transmitted diseases like HPV virus, Herpes can be spreaded through oral sex. Where there is doubt, using an oral dam is recommended.